Start Here: An Introduction to Style Discovery
Stepping into the world of fashion can feel like navigating a labyrinth without a map—daunting, chaotic, and overwhelming. Styles and trends pull you in every direction: punk rock, gothic vibes, skatewear, the casual t-shirt-and-jeans aesthetic, or the suit-and-tie office look. Then there are special occasions to consider: weddings, Christmas parties, date nights, and dinners with the in-laws.
How do you find your way through this maze? Should you buy everything and hope for the best?
When I first ventured into fashion in 2009, I felt just as lost. Over the years, I’ve worked in some of the best designer stores, styled clients from all walks of life, and operated my own fashion label. From experience, I can tell you this: navigating the world of fashion doesn’t have to be overwhelming. The secret lies in focusing on you. By shifting your attention inward and exploring your personal style, the chaos begins to settle, and you might even find the journey enjoyable.
But first, let’s clarify something: fashion and style are not the same.
Fashion speaks to trends, the “what’s in” of the moment. Style, on the other hand, is personal, timeless, and reflective of who you are. Your style is what matters most, and discovering it can be simplified by focusing on three key areas: your body type, your personality, and your goals.
1. Know Your Body Type
The first step to discovering your style is understanding your body type and being realistic about it. Regardless of your body type, you can absolutely be stylish. The key is knowing your current measurements and working within that framework.
Start by getting accurate measurements. You can do this yourself with a tape measure or visit a tailor or department store for professional help. Focus on these key areas:
Neck size
Sleeve length
Chest width
Waist size
Inseam length
Knowing your measurements instantly simplifies your shopping experience. It helps you avoid ill-fitting clothes that distract from your overall look. While size is important, fit is even more crucial. (We’ll dive deeper into the difference between size and fit in future posts!)
2. Dress Authentically to Your Personality
Your style should be an extension of who you are. While it’s tempting to follow every trend, doing so can lead to outfits that feel unnatural or inauthentic. You’ve probably seen someone wearing a bold outfit that just didn’t seem right on them. Their discomfort was likely visible, even to strangers.
Avoid this by aligning your wardrobe with your personality and lifestyle. Start by asking yourself:
What styles do I naturally gravitate toward?
What colors, textures, or patterns feel most like “me”?
How do I want others to perceive me?
For example, you might admire edgy streetwear but feel more at home in classic, tailored pieces. That’s okay! Focus on what resonates with your true self rather than chasing trends. Authenticity not only enhances your confidence but also ensures you look and feel your best.
3. Define Your Style Goals
Your goals play a huge role in shaping your style. Think about where you’re headed in life and how your wardrobe can support that. Start by reflecting on your current wardrobe. Ask yourself:
Does my wardrobe reflect my aspirations?
Are there gaps in my closet that make dressing for certain occasions difficult?
What kind of image do I want to present to the world?
For inspiration, consider someone whose style you admire—a friend, a colleague, or a celebrity. What elements of their look appeal to you? Use this as a starting point, but remember: your goal isn’t to replicate someone else’s style. It’s to craft a wardrobe that reflects your vision.
Your Journey Starts Here
By focusing on your body type, personality, and goals, you can quiet the noise of the fashion world and begin building a wardrobe that feels authentic and empowering. This foundation simplifies the process and saves you time, effort, and frustration in the long run.
This is just the beginning. In future posts, we’ll dive deeper into wardrobe curation, outfit building, and mastering the art of styling. For now, reflect on what you’ve learned here, take your first steps, and imagine what your style could become. Who knows? With your newfound confidence, a call from Esquire to grace their cover might not be far off!
